@bem I wouldn’t call it worse. I’d call it stronger. I was faithful for years thru my former marriage and all I got for it was divorce papers left for me on the front porch like a brown paper bag filled with steaming dog shit. So I’ve learned my lesson, and now I take women wherever I can find them, regardless of my current “status”. E.g. about two weeks ago, I boffed a little Penelope Cruz lookalike four times, then deleted her number immediately after. The girl knew it was a short-term thing and was cool with it. My current girlfriend is pretty great but I’m simply not going to limit myself ever again, period, not after what I went thru. It may sound weird but it’s my own personal code for happiness.
